well we didnt go to the function at school as son said there was no need to go in the end, I am a bit disappointed in the relationship thing with son and dad, but I have to remind myself that at least they are in contact and it isnt going to go full blown as it was before, I just feel that ex is only seeing son now when he takes him to his rugby the phone calls texts and talking to son on msn as stopped. It must be hard from exs side of the fence as well, admittedly, as he is out of work again, facing losing the house we lived in because they cannot afford it any longer, facing losing his car or already as done, yes he is going through a lot again, although he is unaware that I know, just feeel like him and son have faded a bit again, and I really dont want that to happen, before they fell out all ex was doing was taking son to his rugby and no other contact, so I really hope it isnt going back to that, we will keep our fingers crossed and our heads high funny thing other day ex phoned me and was talking amicably about sons future, was on the phone half hour or so and all of a sudden and I mean sudden, he had to go, think hed been caught by wifey on the phone, and for the last two saturday nights he as either phoned or texted me late on, over something or nothing, wonder if he is hitting bottom at long last and is checking into base so to speak, whatever I move on and I let him see that, I will be his friend though when needed
