Corri;
I want you to understand I agree about trying to make our marriges better. You have made some very insightful responses to folks.

This thread is about the 20/20 feature and not nessary about anyones sit here. Society and what gendar rolls are and replacing gendar bias from men to women do have an impact on all of us. I feel to ignore that fact is not to look at the world in a proper light. Can we overcome that in our personal lives.....proablly......does it affect our lives.....yes. Am I gal bashing or WB (woman bashing) no, I love women, I hate what society has done to the relationship between couples. The only way change happens is by seeing the problem exists. Do I blame what has happen in my R on our society.......a small amount, most the blame rests on my shoulders and some on my wifes. If we stumble in the dark and fail to find the light switch life is harder than needs be. I for one want to see what is going on.