It sounds like he needs some cooling off time so that some of that anger can simmer down.
Detaching has been proven over & over it really works. As long as you do things trying to confince him that he belongs with his family, he is going to feel pressued and that will cause him to pull away. Simple actually. You push forward and he backs away. But, if you pull back, then he will draw closer to you. Men like to be the one that does the pursuing.....even if you are M to them. So, stop making any call or text messaging. Don't send emails. Wait for him to do it first. Don't reply right away. Wait a while. That way, you don't come across as being overly eager, needy, or clingy. Men don't like women to be like that. They do like women they have to work to get.
Don't be afraid of this technique. Be confident b/c men think that is sexy in women. Fear & desparation is not sexy and men hate it. When he calls or emails, don't be rude or cold. You are to lovingly detach. Just remember that you are very valuable and he would be crazy to give you up. Become the woman he first fell in love with. That may be hard work, but don't you think it would be worth it to feel good about yourself?
Set some self-improvement goals. Think of ways you need to change and get to work. Spice something up in your appearance. Maybe a new hair color or style. Change up your style of clothes a bit. In other words, break the boredom.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
