Courts I did the nc thing with my hubby for 3 weeks and, whilst it was torture at first, it became easier as the days went by.
H wanted to meet to discuss finances and I put him off ... I knew that once I saw him I would be back to square one, which is where I am right now. Today I feel like ... well, you can imagine what I am feeling like.
Detaching is much less of a trauma than living on the constantly lunging rollercoaster. The longer that you can stay away from your H the better you will feel - and I understand that the more it shakes things up.
Keep reading here ... but don't make it your bible. You have to GAL as well. It's good to find peace and direction here but don't be a slave to it.
You will start to find your own path soon. Keep posting and don't stop ... even when you feel disheartened. That's when you get most from this board, imho.
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
