Quote: cemar I understand your being bothered by the seemingly double standard...however I think you may be missing something...if a man strays on his wife who's leg locked often times even the most sensitive woman will say, well she wasn't taking care of her man. Yet if a woman who's h isn't taking care of her in that same way strays, well, she's just a whore isn't she?
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Not in this country, anymore women support their sisters who feel they have been shorted to play on the side. We had a couple that was going through this, since we were friends of both the H & W my W & I agreed to not take sides and stay out of the middle of it. Any guesses what happened. I come home on a friday and ask why "her" car was on the back of our property? My W said "I told her she could park it for the weekend while she's away with her BF so her H don't see it!" me "WHAT THE HECK, I THOUGHT WE HAD an AGGREEMENT?" her" Oh that well you don't understand what she has been putting up with and how she feels" me "but we had an aggreement!" her, "but she's MY friend!" me"what about H & the kids?" her "You just don't understand."
About the same time this happened a talk radio host did two hours on how women and men will protect women who cheat and men and women will tell on the Husbands. The whole 2 hours was filed with calls that proved this point. I seen it work in action on a number of cases. 75% of Divorces are filed by the wife and many go to another man. So I DON'T BUY it that women are on the short side of this.
