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Let me ask you, can you as the HD wife have an acceptable marriage with a LD husband. I know when the sexes are reversed, us HD men are told we should accept our wives for what they are. And yet both women on this 20/20 special said they more or less would NOT accept their situation and would eventually leave if nothing changed.




it's a battle! sometimes I like to think that I can be content with this m the way it is (also need to note there are other complications see my thread if you wish). I am after all supposed to be a woman and a thing like lack of sex is not suppose to be a reason for me to be unhappy (at least that's what society would have me feel) I fear nothing changing and my desire to be desired getting in the way of me being happy and living my life. Let's face it most men do look at women that way and not just their w's, I am attractive and men do look, thus it makes it difficult for me to do things and not wonder gee is this man thinking of me that way.

will I leave simply because of a lack of sex (well it's more than lack of sex it's lack of passion) for that I do not have an answer. I suppose my hope is that I will either loose my desire or h will gain some and I wont have to make that decision.

LL