My thoughts... I have had people cheat with PA and EA... when it is a PA you feel like you can 'fight back' by doing the things that make you look your best and making them miss what they had. With a PA it can be just physical (not that it does not rip you apart) and involved the body and not the mind.
When it comes to an EA you are devestated, because once emotions are involved it does not matter if you look the sexiest you have in your life, it is not the obdy but the mind and heart that are involved.
It is so much easier to turn a head then turn a heart.
If a PA goes EA or a EA goes PA the battle has just doubled... it does not mean that you can't win the war against divorce (and yes, it is a war) but you will lose some battles and need to occasionally retreat to treat your wounds and regroup.
When it comes down to it... no matter what A it is you are going to be in pain... what you do next is up to you.
M- 11 y H- 40 Me- 41 D (1st M) 19 S (1st M) 17 First EA (w/OOW)discovered 2000 Third EA (w/OOW & phone) discovered 02/06 SSM (total) 3 1/2 years
