Yes you face a double standard as well on the whore issue! It's not fair, that's for sure.
Let me ask you, can you as the HD wife have an acceptable marriage with a LD husband. I know when the sexes are reversed, us HD men are told we should accept our wives for what they are. And yet both women on this 20/20 special said they more or less would NOT accept their situation and would eventually leave if nothing changed.
20/20 supposedly did a story years ago about HD men with LD women that I would love to get a hold of in case there might be some advice that moght help my marriage.