cemar I understand your being bothered by the seemingly double standard...however I think you may be missing something...if a man strays on his wife who's leg locked often times even the most sensitive woman will say, well she wasn't taking care of her man. Yet if a woman who's h isn't taking care of her in that same way strays, well, she's just a whore isn't she?
I think the show focus was set on ld men because there are so many women out there (yours truly among them) who suffer in silence because their h is ld. The old line of "not tonight honey I've got a headache" is common to hear from a woman, so it really isn't going to get great ratings is it?
there are of course other factors involved in why the focus of the publicity seems to be on the ld h with a hd w but those I'll spare ya for now.