Originally Posted By: karen43
I always wonder: are our WAS really the people that we married or the ones they are now?


I'd like to know the answer to that one myself! Goodness knows I've spent many an hour pondering that question. But there's just no real way for us to know the answer, at least not in this lifetime.

Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.