I need help with this. I have tried no contact with her since Weds. We have the same group or friends and we all hang out every weekend. Should I avoid them all together? Trying to go dark but its been tough. Didn't want to see her there yesterday. I thought she would have been home watching my D. I should have expected that. Help.


Me:27
W:24
S:2
D:9 months
M:3 years
Together for 8 years
Bombed : 6/11/09
Moved out: 6/27/09
Found out about her affair 9/7/09
(she started her's at 6/25/09)
Begged n plead 7/25/09
started DB 8/17/09