GG we started posting around the same time You are quite n inspiration Yes, we come to learn the lessons we need the most I guess and I realize this journey was absolutely needed for me Unfortunely our spouses wanted the other road, one that maybe appeared more fun, easier or prettier they couldnt see the choices would lead to destruction some worse than others So happy your H is at least steeping to plate as a co parent part time soem do not and mine is fading quick into his disastrous choices we cant save them we were not meant to so neat that your first H can see the light even years later, he is still thinking about what he lost You will create all you want b./c you have the thing you needed yourself peace
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