;He's a very good father, he is always here for S,that's not a problem - its the fuzzy details I don't like. And, he def. wants legal sep to begin BEFORE he started seeing OW. THat's not the reason he gave, but it's obvious.
But a while ago, before the bomb, I also slept with someone else. H knows. He could just as well use this against me.
As for my boundary - are you sure it's not pursuing? Am I being too pushy?