I like the briefer, detached statement that Coach suggested. It is more cut and dry and less likely to escalate things, especially if you stay calm if she reacts. You do not need to rescue her. Nor do you need to take abusive treatment.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
