Blackrock or Odga, can I ask you a question? I just got rejected by my husband tonight and I got upset. Actually he made a date with me for sex tonight and then forgot and made other plans. However, instead of coming to me and saying that he is sorry for hurting me, he is now acting as if he could care less. I know my husband and I know that this is far from the truth. He will fret about this the rest of the night and things will not be right between us until we make love again. I can't help but be hurt and angry at his actions, though. Can you help me understand why he'd act like it doesn't matter to him (the forgotten sex date, that is)?
Did this situation, or anything like it, ever happen to either of you and can you give me any insight as to what is going on in his brain right now?
