I have to say that show was an eye opener. It opened my eyes to the hurt I was causing my wife. After a year or so of this plus other things, she wants a D. Because of our lack of intimacy, she had built walls to protect herself. She has closed off her heart. She feels she's not worthy of a husband because she can't satisfy me. That's @#$@#. I know this.
She even feels I'm cheating on her This of course is with the help of her friends who say a guy can't be faithful and not be intimate for over a year. I meant what I said when I put that ring on her finger.
I think she doesn't understand my side of it and that I do love her. My heart goes out to you. But know, your husband most likely does love you. When we get an attitude with you guys, we pull back and this pushes you back.
Do you have any advice for a guy trying to break through the shields my W has put up. I'm doing my 180 and I think she has noticed. But she's still on guard. Any help from a females point of view would be great.
I would step in front of a gun for my wife but she is so closed off because of my rejection, I can't get through.
