Yep you screwed up. Any idea why she didn't get upset or wasn't angry with you? Kind of simple. She expected it. Maybe not the actual stopping by the house but this is "more of the same" behavior. You have not changed her expectations and/or opinion of you. Therefore the course of action can not or will not change. She has this all mapped out and things are going according to plan
Shake it up. No R talk. No more letters. Do something different for yourself not the M.
Start by changing her label. WAW puts the emphasis on her having a problem. You both contributed to this and both of you need to change in order to survive. You just happen to be the one who has to lead the charge.
_________________________ Me-41 W-39 M-15 yrs T-17 yrs D-12 S-9 S-8 B 5/08 S 1/09
