Originally Posted By: 2B_2_AS_1
Quick question: We have gone back and forth on getting my little one a halloween costume. We did go together to look at some at one spot. I was hoping we could pick one out together, but she seems like she doesn't care really. She says to go ahead and get one or call her Sunday.

I am thinking just go ahead and get her something by ourselves. Any thoughts or inputs would be helpful.


Just be in charge, be in control and make the decision. Don't make W feel bad, don't be harsh, just be in control. Don't waffle, don't go overboard discussing things. The cumulative effect of this will be very attractive and very positive when you both look back on it. Don't expect it to mean anything to W right away. It will make you feel better immediately though smile


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