Yes! It was one text and then I didn't respond to his response (was nice and clean).

I was hanging with my girlfriend when I sent it. The night was fine, wasn't heavy or particularly hard. I didn't send some drippy emotional text.

Last night would have been hellish six months ago. I had a great time.

Yes, dealing with the finances and impending move and all of that will add to the gravity of what is happening.

I think the hardest part is that I am over trying to make him see or impact his perception so I am very casual. But, it may be counterproductive if I do want him to come back...I just don't know anymore. It is easier to be nice when I have given up. But, I always have a tiny shred of hope.