Oh Nell I so would have said what you thought to that library lady, or at least but there by the grace of god go you and hopefully others will be on your side and not make an announcement of it!
Keep at it take stock of what is good and what is bad! Im not so sure that I should have let things go as far, but it felt right in the moment and when I wibble I remember Dia's thread where the DB coach said she just loved it when H's started having an affair with their W.
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
