HI DB Friends

XH continues to spiral down in the tunnel
his life keeps getting more complicated and disasterous
more financial problems for him and other issues I cant get into
NOT Believable
Yesterday his W called my brother..said H was sick in ER
I called his phone, she answered
sounded high
and kind of laughing as she would not give me info on XH er status
said he was sleeping?? at 10 am in ER??
whatever..xh continues to create work problems with his lack of committment to business and his prescription drug use
He will lose it all..maybe that is his destination before or if ever he gets help
this OW only enables his destruction
our R was total opposite as it always encouraged growth

I have to let him go
more
he may not make it through this unless he gets clean again as he is tumbling into dark waters
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow