Oz... maybe HE was searching for ways to help your situation, especially if he's vocalizing new and different options? Maybe he is trying to gauge your response to his "options."
Think of this, too. IF this computer is shared, AND he found out about this site, wouldn't he erase his history prior to engaging in these R talks?
Was he on specific threads within those forums? Were they ones you have posted to?
I agree w/erasing your signature.
Lastly, if you do have a conversation re: this site, PLEASE tell him there's another wife/mother in the US/MidWest that appreciates all you share and offer in support of me. Sometimes it's just helpful to talk to others NOT involved in your life!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Sometimes it's just helpful to talk to others NOT involved in your life!
