Thanks for checking in. Funny, I have logged on several times this week, with absolutely nothing to say. I feel like I'm going through a period of transition, hopefully one of strength and self honor.
Mike, I get you. I txt'd H for the exact reason ST mentioned above. If he would have asked, I would have cried. I didn't want to. He has postured himself to not being open AT ALL to discussing anything to do with us. Right now, with this DB technique of no R talk, it's no wonder he's much happier and joyful.
HOWEVER, I'm coming to realize it's sending me to a darker place, not conducive to enjoyment of life.
WTF
Off to the weekend. More soccer games, dinner w/friends and boathing. Joy. Game face on. Tired of a game face. At least it's getting thinner! LOL
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
