I suppose you are correct Dia. Either way, I am in our big comfy bed.
I over heard wife talking on the phone about the medical stuff the last few days. She used the term "we" as opposed to "me" when discussing how the last few days went. I think that's a good thing.
It's odd right now - if someone who knew nothing were to walk into our house and observe, they would think everything is fine.
I am still giving her space, (but helping her whenever needed), not saying ILY, and making a real effort not to do the little things that I know she dislikes.
There has been no R talk since she came home and as much as I would like to know what she's thinking, I will try to keep it that way.