Thanks! I really appreciate your reading through my stuff. I know that feeling of not being able to give good advice-especially when there`s wiser ones than me on board-but it`s also good to know that others are in a similar situation.
My dear GF who knows my sitch also says that H has to go to the separated place to really know what he wants. She been saying that for the last year.
I`m feeling stronger today. Really thinking that I can stay solid for my kids and that they`ll be in a more honest place when H is gone.
He`s been gone for such a long time already. I`m trying to figure actually if he`s ever been here in the first place!