Alternately, a Type B (passive) man would likely feel uncomfortable and maybe even intimidated by a woman who exhibited that type of behavior.
Another advantage you have with your H is that unlike a woman, your H will likely be responsive on some level to considerations beyond just his feelings. (No offense meant here!)
Hang in there!
Will check out the book! Thanks! I'm not sure which kind of guy my H is. On the one hand, he is your typical computer nerd - always at the computer, insecure with women, plays D&D, etc. On the other hand, you all know how he yells and bullies and can be quite aggressive. He gets things done in the work sphere that way, too.
As for me, I'm the opposite. I look really outgoing and confident on the outside - I'm an actress, I talk a lot, I have firm beliefs that I stick to. But inside, I'm so sensitive and insecure, that nobody would believe it. People always comment on how confindent I seem - but I never feel that way. H appears shy but is quite stubborn about who he is and how he would like things to be.
Please clarify "considerations beyond just his feelings?" I don't know what you are referring to.
