stronger, thank you for the encouriging words. I dont know if our state has extensions, I just started talking to L's today. She has no idea what our finances are and no idea what she would eligble for. I saw notes (see GIMAs forum) and she is nuts with what she wants. I would end up in the hole everymonth. Crazy. But maybe it takes this to wake her up. the problem in our state is that you can get a divorce in as little as 30 days. What a shame. GIMA talked me of the edge tonight, and along with your notes i feel better. I must get stronger and accept the reality of the situation. 1st And, if I remember, time is on my side............I think...........
ME 41, Her 41 M 18.5 years T 19.5 years s - 12, 10 Bomb 7/12/09 Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09 She moved out 10/1/09 - present
