Tks RSF and EN!!! I did exactly what you said when I pick up my D. I just say thanks and try to keep stepping. I love on my D all the way from when I get her till i get her in the vehicle.
I think part of the problem has been that it has shown probably the whole time since we separated just how much I do care and don't agree with what is going on. I think the WAS just feed off of that and keep doing exactly what they are doing.
I really need to just act happy with what is happening and try not to ask her to do anything anymore. I guess I should also not really talk to her about too much of what goes on with my daughter when I have her. What do you think about that? Is that the right approach???