Hey Thinker,

I can relate to what your feeling. My Retro date is in 4 weeks and there are times when I believe:

(1) my W truly doesn't love me anymore
(2) it's never going to work
(3) we've been unhappy for far too long
(4) my W is never going to change
(5) she's not going to snap out of her haze
(6) who is this woman and I don't like what I see

But then I read some of the success stories, like Orich's experience for example, and my positivity and hope return.

Hang in there...I'm rooting for you.

-LFH


ME: 38
W: 35
D2.5 and S5
Married 12 years
Separated (same house, different rooms)
INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009
The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009