Lost,
Please save these letters for the courts. Please document the phone call and text messages. It's important to do so!!!

I really feel for you and hope for the best! Kerry is right- you have been a rock for your children and hubby has been trying to knock you down. Detaching from him is best. Perhaps you can only communicate via texts or emails. Manipulative that he feels entitled to only contact you and not want you to ever contact him. Perhaps eventually you will have to do all communication throuhg a lawyer for the both of you.

You are wonderful, your hubby is so very unwell. Stay strong. I think you are awesome!

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)