Kids called h and he asked to talk to me. I nipped it nicely. He's feeling left out I presume, however I doubt he finds it fair or atributes it to his actions. Rather, he just thinks it is petty or cruel. Mindreading here but better here than engaging with him.
Silly question, but do you tell him in a plain calm voice what's going on? I know there's a history here and youve been down many paths and you are where you are for reasons known to you...just curious about the telling him thing.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09