I just wanted to tell you and all those who have posted to youm (Robx, Coach, Breakaway, Puppy) thank you so much. I know what you're going through with the sep right now is hard as ever. I've been there and know too well that the beginning is the worst feeling ever. But it does get better, absolutely!! Puppy pointed me to your post so that I can follow some of the advic given to you. I'm on the infedility thread. My H and I have been sep for a yr now. Like your W he is trying to cake eat. Says he loves and I do feel his love but at the same time I know how he has grown to disrespect me and has taken me for granted.
I'm somewhat in the same mental place as you... always second guessing my actions and questioning whether I did the right thing or not. BTW it sounds like you're doing a great job. I like the fact that you seem consistent in your axctions. My problem is that I'm not consistent enough. Keep up the good work. I think if you do your wife will most likely come through. You're doing great and feel free to check my thread. Good luck and I'll keep checking on you too.
