Thanks Gypsy and Breakaway for the posts.

I am having a hard time tonight.

He called this a.m. and we played phone tag until this eve. I thought he was calling to confirm tommorrow's MC appt. Instead he tells me he cancelled it yesterday-without- calling me b/c
HE thinks I am not motivated b/c I didn't call him to say whether or not I wanted to go earlier in the week. I reminded him that I didn't call b/c HE told me that he couldn't talk to me and argue all the time - he asked me NOT to call him all week and save it for the MC. HE does NOT remember it that way - and then hung up. He can't let us win....

He did make a point to say that he didn't cancel therapy just this session several times in the convo for the short time it lasted. I just don't get it - he keeps leaving me and cancelling things and I am the one accused of being unmotivated!?

I am such an unhappy camper!


Me late 50's
M 9/06
D 4/11