He called this a.m. and we played phone tag until this eve. I thought he was calling to confirm tommorrow's MC appt. Instead he tells me he cancelled it yesterday-without- calling me b/c HE thinks I am not motivated b/c I didn't call him to say whether or not I wanted to go earlier in the week. I reminded him that I didn't call b/c HE told me that he couldn't talk to me and argue all the time - he asked me NOT to call him all week and save it for the MC. HE does NOT remember it that way - and then hung up. He can't let us win....
He did make a point to say that he didn't cancel therapy just this session several times in the convo for the short time it lasted. I just don't get it - he keeps leaving me and cancelling things and I am the one accused of being unmotivated!?