Even though you sound brave Oz, I know that you will be feeling disappointment in your heart - and wonderment of where H is and what he is doing - isn't it natural for us to feel that way, despite that we try not to? It's part wifely love and partly our intrinsic 'mothering' nature.
I am wondering if our actions make the WAH's do weird stuff too. I have watched my H do stuff that's evidently not his normal modus operandi and I have heard words coming out of him that he would never have spoken previously. When I have been mysterious, he has either been even more so or, in a 180, he has said that he is going to do things that he would previously never have considered. I think that they have their own way of 180'ing and behaving to see if they can get a rise from us.
My H saw a note on my fridge board which says "Flights for April?" and he didn't make one comment. Ordinarily, he would have been straight in to that but he made like he just didn't care what it was about. I know that he saw it as he commented about something on my shopping reminder which I post on there.
Are our acts making them react?? (I sound like Carry Bradshaw now)!!
Anyhow, hope that your H is back by now and it will be interesting to see what he says of last night.
Have a lovely day Oz and remember to not react at all. Learn from my mistake this week! Will be back later :o)
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
