My Intro: Thanks for Reading!

[RedSoxFan]

Thanks Bill. One minor correction. I ended the relationship with the other woman because I realized it was wrong. It was wrong to begin a relationship before another had ended. It was wrong to have a relationship when I was married.

I stand corrected. Hopefully your W will come to that same conclusion. I've been in your shoes with my first W and I was so obsessed with her R with OM (proving it because she never admitted it), I wound up shooting myself in the foot and sabotaging any chance we may have had. Even after her R with him ended, I had done nothing to make myself a more attractive option than D.

That is exactly where I spent my first several weeks after finding out about OM. I honestly don't see how it could be avoided. We're only human. I sure wish I hadn't but water under the bridge.