Thanks Bill. One minor correction. I ended the relationship with the other woman because I realized it was wrong. It was wrong to begin a relationship before another had ended. It was wrong to have a relationship when I was married.
I stand corrected. Hopefully your W will come to that same conclusion. I've been in your shoes with my first W and I was so obsessed with her R with OM (proving it because she never admitted it), I wound up shooting myself in the foot and sabotaging any chance we may have had. Even after her R with him ended, I had done nothing to make myself a more attractive option than D.
Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage) W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage) M4 Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D W moved out 8/29/09 I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done