Ayk,

Did you talk with your doctor about your prescription? If you review your posting, there is a very strong consistency throughout this thread. Every morning your posting is almost normal and as the day goes on it is getting worse and worse. I would assume that the affects wear off or kick in through out the day. You are getting some incredible advice here, but it is no good if you can't control your impulses. I don't want to sound like an a@@hole, but the problem I see is you! It appears that your wife is/has tried extremely hard and you keep burning bridges! I am positive your daughter knows all the buttons to push to get you riled up and you can't stop it!

I hate to be honest...but that is the truth....period. Yeah...I have ADD, but I have learned to use it to my advantage. There is no drugs or asking for sympathy! I have a gift that I refuse to let control me....I control it. The one difference between us...I knew about it when I was 7 and made a choice to use it to my advantage! So I have had 30 years to learn how to do that, you are only starting. Right now I see your behavior destroying your relationship with your family.

Everyone here has been saying the same thing over and over, but you are missing the point. Until you save yourself...your marriage is gone.

So you understand...it rips my heart out to say what I said above. I have read your posts, feel your pain, and sympathize with you completely. I see a guy who will go a mile to save his family...but he needs to start with himself. Show me what you have!


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