SH, I think you mistook something I had posted. The TV purchase comment was not meant to mean anything more than more wacky behavior and something he would want to use as well. I never thought of it as a sign of affection or anything in that nature. Your h is doing some of the things that others do, but in different ways, i.e., one minute wanting a divorce and then the next purchasing items that you both could use. He's just a little ping pong ball bouncing all over the place right now.
I'm sure your h will select a date at some point in time. It will be interesting when he does it.
I do hope that you have a pleasant weekend.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
