Here's a good link I found about how to develop detachment:
http://www.livestrong.com/article/14712-developing-detachment

If you feel the counselor you/your wife have been seeing is acting inappropriately its worth considering notifying the state board that licenses therapists..just a thought.


M44 H46 T21 Married 16y
D14 D12
Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09
Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09
Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce
Divorce final 6/30/10.