My Intro: Thanks for Reading!

[billclay18]

RSF,

I've followed your story a bit as I know you have mine. You've gotten some great advice from DB'ers much wiser than me. It can be conflicting at times, but you've had the best adviser of all...your W!

You cheated, left your W for OW. You broke your W's heart, but she picked herself up, dusted herself off, let you go and got on with her life...but she didn't D you...meaning she left the door open. Things with OW fizzled out and you wanted W back AFTER you saw she had let you go.

Do you see what worked for HER???? Do what she did and you may have a chance. Do what you're doing and you have little chance. I know it sucks, but I'm sure it sucked for her when the shoe was on the other foot.

Go rent "About Last Night". In addition to being pee-in-your-pants funny...there is a very valuable lesson to be learned from it.