im here im here im here!!!!! so sorry that im falling out of touch, things alittle crazy and im distracted. which is a good thing! i need to catch up on everyone's situations, please know im thinking about all of u!
so i filed the motion for support with the court, spent a few hours going over the document and evidence to support with my attorney. he went to file it and we found out h had fild an rji, which requests a judge for our case but his attorney never served us or notified us. my attorney told me that h's attorney is a nice guy but not any good. oh well for him!
things between us are ugly. finally told son that daddy doesnt live here. he was surprised but he is ok because life isnt changing based on what i told him, he is used to it.
tonight is the jewish new year, going to my aunt. to summarize an ugly situation, i was invited with son to my mil for sunday, then basically uninvited bc h decided he would attend for first time in 4 years. so i assumed he would take son. NOPE!!!!!!!!
he is taking the ow!!!1 instead of son!!!! can u believe this? and, mil is letting him!!!!!
so that was a biggie this week. his aunt (mil sister) got involved and stood up for me...
oh well. its upsetting that ow will be at mil house, where i have been for last 10 years on this holiday, not to mention, it is next door to my house that i had to leave bc h was involved with her and my home foreclosed.
the family has told me they wont speak to her. im sure it wont be comfortable for anyone.
i put it in writing to my attorney so that he is aware that son was invited to a holiday at h's family and h decided to attend holiday without son! and its a jewish holiday and ow isnt even jewish!!! he will never get a holiday with son if he ever decides he wants one!
other than that stuff, im doing well. settling in, starting to look for a job...been keeping us busy, reconnected with some old friends, having some good laughs.
also, ran into that guy that i totally have a crush on, the one i went out with last month 2 times, i believe i mentioned him.
im like a school girl when it comes to him!
i will try to check in more often. hope everyone is doing well. thanks for thinking of me!
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09