Ask yourself when's the last time he considered your feelings?
The last time he showed genuine concern for my feelings rather than dismissing them was last winter after I had gone out with some guy and came home feeling like sh!t. I do have that people pleaser personality and I would sleep with these guys because I didn’t know how to say “no” and not feel bad about it. It pleased H, and it pleased them. (That’s another reason for me to not be in this lifestyle, I just can’t handle the pressures from other guys, let alone H.) Anyways- I was upset, H is telling me over and over “I love you”, and telling me I should get back out there because doesn’t it make me feel good to have these guys paying attention to me? Wait a minute- that’s him minimizing my feelings, right?
That’s the last time I can remember him saying “I Love You”, I couldn’t tell you the time prior to that, and there hasn’t been any since.
