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Are you still living in the house or did you move out?


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conf's went good w mlc.

s tried to get me in trouble texting mom he's going to die if he didn't eat and no food in the house,he isn't going to die eating leftovers,that's what i told him and texted back to her too.HERS GOT THE SMILEY FACE.THAT TIME.

txtd cnslr and mlc,she's paranoid as hell i'm going to divorce her and take kids. cnslr ur not helping.we can handle hse kids quit turning us into what we're not and be a counselor

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This is my wk with the kids. MLC said we could alternate 3 wks ago,this is my second wk, since 7/13.

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no i didn't move out,grabbed clothes i need for fun and work,renting a friends bsment.

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Denial started in December right around the 10th.
She wanted to read books and be alone, started drinking more,said smart remarks and started putdowns,i got a wedding band tatoo and she said it looked like a string and said another tatoo looked like a troll.
Her dad had surgery in March.
Easter bad day for her knew last time she'd see her grandfather.
Mothers Day she was a stinker,too.
May grandfather died.
On vacation is when things started going down hill.First week June.
July asked me to leave,didn't want to say anything she'd live to regret.
Then it turned to what its is now.
Shoot I messed up.

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I sent her an email this morn.

it was long,but it was about kid stuff,how great D is, what they did,what they said about the last couple wkends,asked, respect mother,parties ok,friends need to smoke outside,don't drink moms stuff,if they're going to go somewhere else.

asked neighbors friends to mind there own business,which i did.

i didn't use the word i or me once.didn't say hello or goodbye.

D doesn't like my counselor,said he's ruining things.

Said agreed with D going to a different counselor.

ur free,not snooping,not judging,etc.it was one sentence.
said not contacting mutual friends or her family.

want us both to be great parents,that's what makes us happy.

thx for time with kids,open to working something else out for her,so she's not gone so long.

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So i need to detach like now and live a life.

I'll wait however long for her to respond. Because I've been doing too much of the wrong.

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So i need to detach like now and live a life.


Yes.



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Darn Jack,

Does this happen a lot. Or am I way too late in the game?

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Does what happen alot?

Are you too late?
What if you were?

Dettaching and living your life is your only real option either way. You and anyone else for that simple matter will find out what happens down the road...down the road when you get there.

If I could predict the future, I'd be in Vegas.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

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