"HMMM,,,, Maybe this IS for the best... Now I can watch sports, have my hobbies, be clean or be a slob, go out when I want, stay home when I want, see who I want, not see who I don't want, play golf when I want.. ETC ETC ETC...."
YOUR attitude is... "she is the only thing I want and the only thing I can think about"
No wonder you are depressed thinking like that... Who wouldn't be?
Go get a life and have some FUN... Go out and mingle... Find some fun hobbies. Quit moping.....
Great advice. Live your life, enjoy your new found freedom. That's what I'm doing. I can do what I want when I want...as can my W. I haven't heard from her in 3 weeks and I've made the most of it. Do I miss her? Yep. Would I love to hear from her? Not sure. Do I think she'll come back? Probably not...nothing I can do about it...her choice. I do know that sitting around pining for her isn't going to change anything nor is it good for me.
BTW...About Last Night is one of my all time favorites. Really shows how differently men and women view relationships, the fears, hangups...how poorly friends can influence us...plus Jim Belushi is despicably hilarious. Every guy has a friend like him and every woman hates him. Elizabeth Perkins is a piece of work too. A must see for all.
Last edited by billclay18; 09/18/0907:42 PM.
Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage) W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage) M4 Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D W moved out 8/29/09 I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done
