I'm glad you guys said that b/c I thought it was just "me" having a bad feeling about it. That is the reason I was very careful how I worded my post. I decided not to say anything on Orich's thread b/c he was not going to be reading it anyway......but frankly, it kind of ticked me off (lol) b/c I felt like it was his W controling him. I do see how a LBS would feel uncomfortable about it, but it is a support group just like in some counseling groups. There have been several people lately who just stopped without a word to anyone and that bothers me. I know it's their business, etc., but seems to me that they are glad to get support/advice when they come...and they should at least tell us they're not coming back. How do we know that they didn't get killed or something?

Well, thanks for letting me know that I wasn't the only one who was left feeling like that did over Orich.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!