Uh oh... I think I just goofed on whether Hope is the H or the W.
Apologies for the gender bending!
I am the W - my H is the WAS...that's why I wanted your input Dia - from a woman's perspective. I have a lot of great male friends on here but Stronger is the only woman who posts regularly.
But I love all my friends on here!
I think STronger meant that reply to another thread as she is writing to a male.