Coach, it feels like it just gets really nasty from here on in... Do you think it is OK just to tell her I am going out tonight by myself?

I called a couple of Ls. Going rate is $400/hour just to have an initial discussion..... So looks like this becomes pricey real soon.

ME 41, Her 41
M 18.5 years
T 19.5 years
s - 12, 10
Bomb 7/12/09
Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09
She moved out 10/1/09 - present