- You can't stop her from moving out or filing if she wants. "I understand how you feel, I won't stand in your way but I won't support a seperation anymore than I am legally required." Don't talk about at all if you can't do it without getting emotional.
- I would not agree to the apartment splitting idea. She wants to divorce then she can move out. She wants to split up the family then put it all on her shoulders. You are responsible for your part in the marriage only.
- You buddy GIMA can probably give you the legal side of the finances if she moves out.
- Go out tonite to a HS football game, go exercise, do something productive.
- Don't let her bait you into any R talks, money talks or apartment talks. Let her know you need to talk to your lawyer before you can comment.
This is getting more real so you need to have a plan. What changes do you need to make for yourself? How can you be a great Dad right now? What business do you need to handle - $, hire a L? What do you want - list your goals?
You can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
