Well, after what I though were a couple of good days, the wife came home telling me that she was looking at apartments. I asked why? She said because she still wants a divorce and thinks that we can keep our children in our house and then split an apartment for half the time each month. I am floored. I thought the last few weeks had been excellent only to discover, that for some reason, D is squarly in her targets. In fact, as she drove out of the driveway she told me she though she she should jsut set up the appoint for mediation for next week and get it moving.

I am in desperate need of help. I have no clue what I should do. At this point I have no idea even what my fiscal responsibilities woudl be if she did file for a D. Help!


ME 41, Her 41
M 18.5 years
T 19.5 years
s - 12, 10
Bomb 7/12/09
Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09
She moved out 10/1/09 - present