FYI, her coming back, but coming back all negative is a positive sign despite the negative part.
IMHO, go re-read Coach's post.
Thanks Dia. Trying to understand what you're saying. W didn't really go anywhere in my case, so I was thinking that her asking to completely end things was not good. I guess this is the only place where she has offered up her feelings, needs, etc. so maybe that is positive.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09